How I Crafted this Amazing Life of Mine
Recently I have been spending a lot of time reflecting on exactly how I created this amazing life that I have in my businesses and with my lifestyle.
After hours and hours of contemplation, I figured out the formula.
It is equal parts Embracing Failure, seeking a Mentor, and mastering the art of planning.
Step 1: Embracing Failure
While I don't claim that failure is essential for everyone's journey, I firmly believe that if you aren't failing, you aren't pushing yourself hard enough. The beauty lies in repeated failures; they allow you to refine your approach and identify areas in your life that require enhancement.
For the first 30 years of my life, I was lost. I wore a mask to please others, neglecting my own happiness. The first 3 years of my business reflected this, as I let others dictate its direction due to my fear of confrontation. My second business failure a few years later was flawed by ignoring warning signs. However, this time I was prepared for the fallout, knowing the corrective measures to take.
Step 2: Seek a Mentor
I can confidently say that I wouldn't be where I am today without the guidance of my mentors. It took time to identify who they were and their roles in my life. Some I hired for their expertise, some I paid merely to be in their company, and some became friends.
The common thread?
I always ensured I was surrounded by individuals who were more accomplished than me, those who had walked the path I aspired to and were willing to guide me.
Step 3: Mastering the Art of Planning
I've transformed into a meticulous planner over the years. I've cultivated the habit of segmenting various aspects of my life into daily, weekly, monthly, quarterly, yearly, and 3-year goals. My life's "buckets" include:
Fitness
Faith
Appointments
Tasks
Meals
Content Creation
Family Time
Vacations
Personal Goals
Every Sunday, I dedicate time to organizing these categories in my planner. I tackle one at a time, brainstorming, reviewing past entries, seeking inspiration from platforms like Pinterest, and aligning with upcoming training.
Every quarter, I set objectives in the "6 F's":
Family
Faith
Fitness
Freedom
Finances
Future
Annually, Kara and I revisit our goals and refresh our 3-year vision. This balance of short-term and long-term planning is a cornerstone of the formula that has blessed us with a fulfilling lifestyle and thriving business.
Do you Need Help in Any of the Following?
Identifying areas of improvement in your business.
Guiding you in the mentor selection process.
Teaching the nuances of effective planning.
